Beginning of the Third Trimester!

I am now in my third trimester and  I only have about 10 weeks until the baby is due!  That is incredibly hard to believe since it feels like only yesterday I found out I was pregnant.  While the time has flown, I think that Jordan and I are pretty well prepared.  We started out with a giant to-do list and at this point we have managed to take care of most of our important tasks.

Finding Daycare: 

Finding daycare was the number one thing on our to-do list.  Our daycare search started about two months ago.  I am sure finding daycare is challenging for anyone, but finding daycare when you are both nurses is really difficult.  First of all, the hours we would need are 6:00 am until 8:30 pm.  After calling around, we soon found out that no major day cares will accommodate those hours, majority of them run from 8 to 5, with a few that will extend hours until 6.  We could try having a sitter who dropped her off at daycare and picked her up, but that would be really expensive, so would a full time nanny.  We also don't have set schedule and could need childcare anywhere from 1-3 days a week depending what days we both work, so finding someone who'd be willing to work with that was also a challenge.  We ended up calling Childcare Services Association of Orange County and asking them for advice.  They recommended in-home daycare, which is a lot more flexible than standard daycare but they still have to meet all the state licensing requirements.  They are rated on a 5 star scale, and you can look up to see if they have ever had any claims or complaints filed against them.  We got a list of local home day cares sent to us and began setting up interviews.  After interviewing at several of them (and driving by two which I refused to interview at based on the house/neighborhood) we finally found one that we liked.  It is in a nice neighborhood right next to ours, and the lady has converted her entire basement into a little daycare.  It is very organized, clean, and all the kids there seemed really happy.  She has a lot of experience and all of her references had wonderful things to say.  We were lucky that she actually had an opening, and Jordan and I are both relieved to finally have found someone we both feel comfortable with.

Nursery Updates:

We now have all of the major furniture for the nursery in place except for the glider.  Since we used my old furniture as a dresser, changing table, and night stand, we were lucky in that the only big thing we really needed was a crib, and my parents were nice enough to purchase a crib for us as an early shower present.  I am also starting to think that we will definitely need a bookshelf and a library card, because Jordan and I seem to buy books everywhere we go.

Our crib!  It is a Graco Covertible Crib, so when Cora gets bigger we can turn it into a toddler bed.

The letters that I ordered from Etsy, which are currently being shipped to us.  I can't wait to see them in person, it looks like they turned out great!

Jordan and I were also very excited to receive another early shower gift in the mail, our travel system!  Jordan's dad and step-mom had it shipped to us, and I literally squealed in delight when I opened the door and saw it sitting there.  We tested a lot of them out at the store, and then I did some online research, and we ended up picking out the Chicco Cortina Keyfit 30 Travel System.  For those of you who have never heard of a travel system, it is basically buying the car seat base, car seat, and stroller together.  The car seat can snap out of the base and right into the stroller so that you never have to lift the baby out or lug around a heavy carrier.  The car seat is rated #1 in safety, and the stroller is easy to use and light.   Scooby is terrified of it, so hopefully we can get him used to walking beside it before the baby comes.

The color is called "Adventure", which is basically green.  I thought it'd be nice to have a neutral color that Jordan wouldn't be embarrassed to push around.

On a completely unrelated note, Jordan and I recently had our anniversary and he surprised me with roses and dinner at Maggiano's.  It is unfortunate that  I am currently experiencing an aversion to pasta and threw up everything I ate that night.  I may never eat pasta again, but it was still a fun night.

Baby Updates:
This week I will be 30 weeks pregnant.  This means that Cora is about 17 inches long and around 3lbs.  She still a few inches to grow and quite a few pounds to put on.  I can feel myself getting bigger by the day, so I am trying to take more pictures.  Enjoy!

Just incase anyone was wondering what 17 inches long looks like.  At this point she can give me some pretty strong kicks and punches.

And from the side

Belly shot.  According to What to Expect, my uterus is now the size of a basketball... I believe it.

Emilie and Casey came to visit me last week!  Thank you guys for coming, and also making me realize how unnaturally pale I am right now.

Best parents ever.

Laziest dog ever.

Jordan and I have a few more days of work and then we will be hitting up Charleston, South Carolina for our 4-day babymoon!  I can't wait and I will be sure to take a lot of pictures :)

Home Improvement

So it has been a while since my last post and I have been very busy.  Well, I guess I haven't actually been that busy, but it feels like I have.  Ever since we found out we were pregnant Jordan and I have been in the constant process of prepping the house for baby and fixing all of the things that we probably won't have the time or money to fix after she comes.  At the beginning of the summer we planted a lot of flowers in the front yard, and pulled up some really ugly shrubs in the backyard and planted a garden there.  The garden has actually turned out better than I expected, and we had squash, beans, tomatoes, and watermelon grow in it.  

Squash is to the left, beans, tomatoes, watermelon.

We also fenced in the backyard and installed a doggy door so that Scooby would be able to go in and out on days we both had work.  However, we underestimated his jumping abilities, and it turns out he is able to jump over the 5 foot fence.  He doesn't do it when we are at home, but he has really bad separation anxiety and when we leave he wants to find us.  One day he jumped out when we were both at work and I was scared he would run away, but when we got home he was laying by the front door and there were paw prints on my car from where he had jumped up to peep in the windows.  Jordan's parents were nice enough to send us an electric fence this past week, so we plan to line our fence with that and hopefully he will learn not to jump.  Other than that, the fence has been wonderful.  It makes the yard look so much bigger, and it will be nice to have a fenced in yard when Cora is old enough to play in it.

The fence

The escape artist

We have also done a lot of work to the inside of the house.  The biggest and our favorite new feature is definitely our floors.  The house had carpet flooring that was about 8 years old, so it was time for some upgrading.  We had the carpet ripped up in the living room along with the laminate in the kitchen and installed some hardwoods, which have been WONDERFUL.  They are easy to keep clean, durable, spill proof, and they look great.  We also had the carpet in all the bedrooms replaced.  The new carpet is mostly tan, but it is the multicolored carpet that has the little dots of different colors in it so that it hides dirt really well.  The last big living room/kitchen purchase was a new kitchen table.  The old one was smaller and had a glass top, so we opted for a more durable wooden one that is still relatively small, but it has a self-storing leaf so that we can pull it out to seat 6-8 people if needed.

Hardwoods in the kitchen

New kitchen table

Living Room with the new floors and rug

Jordan also recently replaced the bathroom sink faucets and shower heads.  I was skeptical of his plumbing capabilities but he watched "how to" youtube videos and managed to do it all by himself.

And last but not least, we got new bedroom furniture!  All of my bedroom furniture went into the baby's room, and all Jordan had was a tiny little dresser and night stand, so there was no room to store stuff in the master bedroom.  We got a new headboard/footboard, dresser, chest of drawers, and two night stands.  It looks great and I was really excited to get my clothes out of the baby's room and have a place to put them in our room.

New bed!  It is really nice to finally have a headboard and two night stands.  You can also see the carpet that is now in all three bedrooms.

Chest of drawers... along with the most amazing fan I have ever purchased.  It cools the air as it blows it and I keep it pointed straight at me while I sleep.

Dresser... and a lot of extra storage space 

Our recent purchases have also taught me that Jordan can pretty much sell anything on Craigslist.  He posted a bunch of things we needed to get rid of... a table, rug, dresser, night stand, a weight bench, and a bookshelf and sold all of it for about the same price he paid for all of it, if not more.  He sold the bookshelf for $50 when he only paid $10 for it at a garage sell, which was pretty impressive.

Hopefully I will get around to posting another pregnancy blog later this week.  I am in the third trimester now... bigger and better than ever :)

Shopping Has Never Been So Fun

Shopping for a baby is SO MUCH FUN.   I will be forever grateful for baby shopping because it has led me to my greatest discovery in recent years:  consignment stores.  Obviously I knew about consignment stores before getting pregnant, but I didn't realize how awesome they were until I started shopping there for baby items.    You can find some amazing deals on just about anything you need for baby, and load up on stuff without spending a lot of money.  My best find thus far has been a Synergy Mesh Baby Bjorn, which retails at Babies R Us for $179.00.  My mom and I picked one up for $30.00.  I was really excited about finding this, because Jordan has been talking about wanting a Baby Bjorn since I first got pregnant.

Jordan testing out the Baby Bjorn

Other supplies we have gotten through consignment stores include a Bobby/playmat, a bathtub, baby books, nursing apron, and a LOT of clothes, gloves, socks, hats, jackets and such.  My mom got a pack-n-play and a travel system for her house at a consignment sale, they are both in GREAT condition and were awesome deals.  She also had a friend at work sell us a really nice baby swing and baby seat for $50.

Our living room after arriving home from a consignment sale at the fairgrounds, this was only some of the stuff.

My favorite thing to shop for at consignment stores are clothes.  A lot of the clothes, especially newborn stuff, still have the tags on because kids don't even get the chance to wear them before they grow out of them.  We got Cora the cutest christmas dress for $2.00, and several other cute outfits for $2.00-$4.00.  Between the things we have picked up consignment shopping, and the cute outfits that we have gotten as gifts from friends and family, we already have a nice little collection of clothes started.  After previewing some of my mom's baby shower purchases I think that Cora is not only going to be beautiful, but also a very well dressed baby.

Fur trimmed dress that I purchased for $4.00

Scottie dogs, $4.00

Cora's First Christmas Dress, $2.00

While I love consignment stores, the fact that we live about 5 minutes away from Southpoint, which entails Target, Old Navy, Babies R Us, Nordstrom and numerous other stores means that I visit them frequently.  I had been pretty reasonable with all my expenses until I walked into Pottery Barn Kids.  After shopping around at Target and Babies R Us, I still hadn't found any bedding that I was crazy about.  This led me to online shopping at Pottery Barn Kids, where I found bedding that I LOVED.  I decided that I would go there, purchase the bedding, and immediately leave the store so that I didn't get tempted to buy other things.  That place is like heaven on earth, and despite the ridiculous prices, everything is set up in such an adorable way that you think it might actually be worth the money.  Thank goodness Jordan was with me the first time I went in, because kept me from grabbing up everything I saw. The first time we went in we just bought the quilt for the bedding, and a giant pink stuff rabbit that is incredibly soft.  Recently I went back and purchased the rest of the set, and now we have all of our bedding.  It is the Hayley theme and it is precious.  I found a designer on Etsy that makes these custom letters to hang on the wall, and she is designing them based on the  bedding, so I can't wait to see how they turn out.

Samples of previous letters done to coordinate with Hayley bedding from the Etsy shop I ordered from (so cute!)

Pictures of the nursery bedding, taken from the Pottery Barn website

The nursery has been a work in progress, and we finally have the room cleaned out so we can start organzing all of our baby stuff.  Some of my favorite decorations we have for the nursery so far are a picture and a pillow that we picked up in Wisconsin, they are both so cute and sweet that they make me want to cry.

So cute

"I love you to the moon and back" pillow that is similar to the picture.  Also pictured are a changing pad,  cover, and sweet dolly that my grandma bought for Cora :)

Jordan wanted to get me something that I really wanted for my birthday last month, and that ended up being a diaper bag.  Well, originally it was a new purse, then I remembered I am having a baby and decided a diaper bag would be more suitable to my needs.  After a couple weeks of looking around, I found two that I couldn't decide between, and Jordan surprised me by getting both.   One of them is a Petunia Pickle Bottom bag and the other is made by Storksak.  They look nothing alike, which is nice, and I know I will get a lot of use out of both of them.

The Petunia Pickle Bottom bag

The best feature of the bag... it converts into a backpack!

And the Storksak bag, which is really cute and looks more like a purse than a diaper bag

Jordan's birthday is coming up at the end of August.  He will be 30, so I have been trying to think of a memorable present for him.  When I asked him what he wanted, he told me he wanted new pots and pans to cook with.  I doubt many people know this, but Jordan is an amazing cook, and he does most of the cooking in our house.  I am trying to learn how to be a better cook, but I would probably eat the same 3 meals over and over if I didn't have him to show me how to make new things.  Anyways, the point is that getting him a new set of cookware is basically like getting a present for myself, because I love to eat the food that he cooks.  I went ahead and bought him a set and gave it to him, and I am still on the prowl for the perfect birthday gift. 

Jordan beaming over his new set of pots and pans. (Not sure why this picture came out kind of fuzzy)

Scooby wearing some ribbon from Jordan's box

 Last but not least, a weekly belly shot...

26 weeks, baby is 2 pounds and 14 inches long.  She can now hear, see and swallow... guess I better start reading out loud!

Being Pregnant

Pregnancy has been an incredible experience, and my body is changing by the day.  My favorite part of reading other pregnancy blogs is reading about changes and getting to compare myself to them, so below I have listed a few of the major changes and how they have impacted me. 

Morning sickness: I will go ahead and say that morning sickness is no joke, and it doesn’t happen in just the morning, it can and does happen all day long.  Many of you know how much I enjoy eating, so not being able to eat and throwing up a lot really sucked.  Certain smells , especially eggs made me gag on the spot.  Being at work and changing bed pans and experiencing all the other wonderful smells there was also very hard to handle. Thankfully, my doctor gave me some nausea medicine, and helped me to get the sickness under control.  I still get really nauseous from time to time, but it is not an everyday thing like it was.

  

Fatigue:  I was not expecting how tired I would be.  The first few months I was tired ALL THE TIME.  It was hard to make it through the day without taking at least one nap, so normally I did.  If I didn’t have work, I would nap whenever I felt like it, and that really helped me to feel better and get me through the first few months.  I have a little bit more energy these days, but I still really enjoy napping, and working three twelve hour shifts in a row is very hard to do now, so I try to avoid it.

Emotional wreck:  Pregnancy turned me into an emotional roller coaster.  I am not normally the type of person that gets upset over stupid stuff or cries a lot, but those first few months, the tiniest things would set me off.  TV shows, not being able to find my keys, dropping my sandwich on the floor, dumb things like this would cause me to tear up.  Luckily, Jordan is very understanding, and he never made fun of me (though I probably would have in his shoes).  After the first 4 months, I began to get more control over my emotions, but I am still much more emotional than I was pre-pregnancy.

Getting a Belly:  Obviously, I knew it was coming, but starting to grow a belly was still kind of surprising.  Once I started showing, the idea that there was a child inside of me no longer seemed so abstract and it started to become real.  It took up until about 5 months before I started to look pregnant, and not just fat or oddly shaped.  The fourth and fifth month are a pretty entertaining time, because you can tell people who look at you are trying to decide whether you are pregnant and whether or not it would be ok to ask.  I found that of my patients at work the only people who never hesitated to ask were the old ladies.  It’s like once women get past 70 they don’t care if they are offensive are not, they are going to say what they are thinking.  I have been trying to take pictures every few weeks since I started seeing a noticeable difference in my belly, and I am glad I did because between the 5th and 6th months I popped.  At six months, now I definitely look pregnant, and I already feel big so I can’t imagine how I am going to feel in a few months.  Here are some pictures with weeks, weights, and food references, which help to put the size and growth of the baby into perspective.

Belly around 15 weeks (beginning of 4th month).  Baby is about 41/2 inches long, 2 to 3 oz, and the size of an orange.

Around 19 weeks (beginning of month 5), looking a little bit rough after walking Scooby in the scalding heat.  Baby is 6 inches long and a half pound in weight, or the size of a large mango.

Beach for my birthday around 21 weeks, and the last appearance that bikini will make for a while.

And BOOM, 24 weeks/6 months, definitely a baby in there now. Baby is about 1 1/2 lbs and 8 1/2 inches, the length of an ear of corn and my uterus is about the size of a soccer ball.. wow.

Gaining weight:  You would think this would go hand in hand with getting a belly, but I put them in two different categories.  When I found out I was pregnant, I thought “Ok, I am going to work really hard so that I don’t get fat, maybe I can just get a belly and the rest of me will stay the same.”  I was dreaming.  As of today, I have gained 15 pounds, and that doesn’t sound like an excessive amount but it certainly feels like it.  When you are pregnant, your blood volume goes way up and you have a lot of extra fluid on board.  I don’t know if it is from gaining fat or fluid, but my hands and feet have taken a hit.  I didn’t think it was possible, but my feet have gotten even uglier.  They are constantly swollen and my ankles ache like I’m an arthritic 80 year old.   My fingers are swollen and I have to be careful when I put rings on because there is a chance they might not come off.    I have also gotten bigger in my thighs and butt, which is to be expected, but it still sucks.  Though I know weight gain is a positive thing during pregnancy, every time I go to the doctor I think of the scene in Knocked Up where the nurse is like “Don’t worry your baby wants you to gain a whole mess of weight” and Katherine Heigl is like “ARE YOU F*****G KIDDING ME?”, because that is how it makes you feel.   

 

Despite all these changes, I am feeling great, and I am incredibly thankful that I have had a safe and relatively easy pregnancy thus far.  Plus, being being pregnant has a lot of incredibly amazing and fun parts to it, such as seeing the baby, learning the sex, and coming up with names :)

Seeing the Baby:  Going to the ultrasounds has been fun, and Jordan has come to all my appointments so we have been able to watch the baby grow into a beautiful little person.  My first ultrasound was at 8 weeks, and the baby already had a heart beat and little arms and legs beginning to grow.  When you are pregnant, you count weeks from the first day of your last menstrual period.  So basically the first 2 weeks that you count, you aren’t even pregnant yet.  So when I had my 8 week ultrasound, it was really only about 6 weeks since the baby was actually conceived.   It is absolutely amazing to me that something can go from a single cell to the shape of a person in just six weeks.  My next ultrasound was done at 12 weeks, and was my first trimester screening for Down’s Syndrome, Trisomy 18, and other genetic disorders.  I was shocked that at 12 weeks, the baby looked like a baby and was absolutely huge compared to the 8 week ultrasound.  We got to see a really cute profile picture, and even some 3-D images.  Luckily, the ultrasound and all my blood tests came back looking good, and the chances that our baby has any type of severe genetic or chromosomal disorder are very slim. After much anticipation and waiting, the 20 week ultrasound came, which includes the anatomy scan that makes sure your baby has all the right parts, the belly and heart and bladder are developing, and… the sex!  It was never a question for us whether we wanted to know the sex of our baby, we both knew we did from the very beginning.  I wanted to be able to buy stuff and plan, and I feel like it is just as much of a surprise if you find out at 20 weeks than if you wait until the baby is born.  Jordan’s mom thought it was going to be a girl from the beginning.  My dad guessed it would be a girl, my mom and my sister thought it would be a boy, and I think Jordan changed his mind on a daily basis.  I knew I would be happy with either, and I can honestly say that I did not have a preference.  Our baby was not shy, and the first thing that we saw in the ultrasound picture was that it is a baby girl!  After getting over the excitement of finding out that it was a girl and telling everyone, we were able to settle on a name.

8 week ultrasound, baby is about 1/2 an inch long and the size of a raspberry

Baby at 12 week ultrasound/1st trimester screening, baby is  1/2 ounce, 2 1/2 inches, and about the size of a large plum.

A 3-D image from 12 wk ultrasound, she already looks like a little baby!  Such a huge difference from the 8 week ultrasound!

18 week anatomy scan, Baby is 5 1/2 inches long and 5 oz in weight,  or the length of a bell pepper.

The gender shot... baby girl!

Another one from the 18 week scan, you can really see her arms and legs in this one!

Naming the Baby:  Discussing boy names was difficult, because I did not have any ideas going into it, and it was hard for me to find names that I really liked.  We both wanted to come up with names that were different without being weird, which I think is harder to do for boys.  I feel like there are a lot more options for girls.  I had a lot of ideas for girl names, and one name that I loved.   It was the front runner from the beginning, and though we discussed other names, we could not find one that we liked better.  Once we found out we were having a girl, we already had the first name picked out.  It took a while longer to decide upon a middle name (which she will share with my sister), but now we have the perfect name for our baby… Cora Elizabeth Wilkes.

Moving and shaking:  Kicks!  Feeling Cora kick has been the coolest part of pregnancy thus far.  At first I wasn’t sure if I was feeling kicks or not, but one day it was like she woke up and became superbaby.  The first real kick I felt sent a jolt through my whole body, and was so powerful that I had no doubt what it was.  Since then she has kicked and flipped on a regular basis, and now I can actually see her moving from the outside.

Welcome!! and a little surprise.

 Welcome to my first blog post!  I have been contemplating starting a blog for a while, and I finally decided to take the time and actually do it. I have a lot of life updates and fun things to talk about, so I will get right into it. 

 My first major life update and the inspiration behind this blog is... I am pregnant!!!  Surprise!  I am actually 6 months pregnant, my due date is 11/11/11! The past six months have flown by, and I cannot believe how much my life has already changed.  Since this is my first entry of a blog that will mostly be about becoming a mom, I thought it would be appropriate to start off by recapping the day I found out I was pregnant and the major events that have since followed.

The Day I Found Out:  A lot of people I tell ask about what happened when I found out I was pregnant.  I would love to say that I handled it very gracefully, but that wasn’t really the case.  It was completely unexpected, and it terrified me.  I have always known that I wanted to have kids, but I never expected to have them this young, or without it being planned.  There is really no one word to describe how I felt, it was a mixture of fear, happiness, shock, anxiety and several other emotions.  The day I found out, I bought a pregnancy test because I didn’t want to worry over something that seemed so unlikely.  I went to the store and bought the cheapest pregnancy test I could find.  This was a mistake.  When you are buying something like a pregnancy test, DO NOT buy the cheapest one at the store. I got one of those one line or two line tests, and one line showed up and the other line was so faint I couldn’t tell whether it was a line or not. The only thing that test was good for was inducing a state of panic and anxiety.  Then I had to go through the agony of waiting until I could get another test that was actually readable.  This is why I would also suggest buying two tests instead of one, because whether you are trying to get pregnant or not, you will want more than one test.  I had to call my room-mate Casey because I did not think I was capable of driving.  I told her I needed another test, and that I wanted one that said either “pregnant” or “not pregnant”.  After taking one that said “pregnant” very clearly, I was convinced.  Having a test that seemed so decisive actually worked to calm me down, and Casey and I were able to talk about it for a couple of hours, which really helped.  Jordan was at work, so I took the time I had to plan out how I would tell him.  I wanted to try to remain as calm as possible when I told him, and I really wanted to do it without crying.  Unfortunately, that did not work out.  I went to his house when he got off, and upon seeing him immediately burst into tears and blurted it out.  Jordan ended up handling the news much better than I could have ever dreamed.  I was a little concerned he didn’t understand at first, because after calming me down he and got up and said “Ok, well I am going to make some chicken parmesan, do you want some?”   I think cooking was his way of taking time to process the news, and about halfway through the meal we started talking about it.  Jordan was so supportive, and we found out that we were both excited and ready to take on a baby.  Two days later we went to the doctor and found out that I was definitely pregnant, and then the planning began.

Telling friends and family:  Jordan told his parents almost immediately and they were both thrilled.  Jordan is the youngest of their three boys, and he turns 30 next month, so they have been waiting to be grandparents for a while.  I waited until I was almost 14 weeks pregnant to tell my parents.   My mom would always complain about how she wanted grandkids and how she would be so old by the time she gets any.   I am pretty sure she thought she would be in her mid sixties by the time either me or Brenna had kids, and I kind of thought she would too.  Telling my parents was hard because I knew they would worry about me.  I knew my mom would ask me what I was planning on doing at work, what we would do for childcare, what I would do about the year-long apartment lease I had just signed, basically she would ask me all the questions I was asking myself.  I wanted to take time to figure everything out so I felt prepared and had answers to some of these questions.  After sub-leasing my apartment, moving in with Jordan, talking to HR at work, and researching several childcare options, I felt much better about breaking the news.  I tried to think of a clever way to tell my parents, but I ended up just blurting it out like I did with Jordan.  My parents both handled the news well, and I know they are really excited.  My mom has already bought enough supplies to set up her own nursery, so I know she is expecting frequent visits.   I have gradually been telling friends along the way, and it took me a while to feel ready to announce it to everyone.  Then came the question of how to tell people.  I didn’t want to call up people I don’t regularly talk to and say “Guess what?  I’m pregnant!”, send a mass text, or announce it on Facebook.  Since becoming pregnant I have started reading all kinds of mom and baby blogs and they are all really interesting.  Although I am not as interesting or technologically savvy as most of the moms I read,  I thought starting my own blog  would be a great way announce the baby to everyone, keep people updated, post pictures and fun for me to look back on down the road. 

Jordan and I are very excited about becoming parents!